On 11th March 2020, the WHO carried out virtual press conference and confirmed our fears. Covid 19 was declared a pandemic with such a wide reach and explosive magnitude, the world braced itself for the impact. Lockdowns were imposed, economies brought to a grinding halt and travel was shutdown. All of us were struck where we had to embrace what covid 19 had in store for us. Due to pandemic schools were closed and we were made sit at home after few days school initiated the online mode for teaching . Online classes were definitely daunting at first because they were the “Unknown” for so many of us. The sudden change made a deep impact to my mind and gradually got transformed into stress. Everything got shattered, from where to start and where to end was getting disappeared in fog. And this stress started spreading in my body like a virus, when I wasn’t able to manage my time during online exam. It’s a scientific fact that the hormones of stress down regulate genes and create disease, long-term effects. That means our thoughts could make sick.
So if our thoughts can make us sick, then thoughts can make us well.
Stress happens when our body and brain are knocked out of balance. The stress response is what the body innately does to return itself back to order. When we turn on our stress response and you can’t turn it off, now we are headed for disease because no organism in nature can live in emergency mode for that extended period of time. Stress is a habit( a redundant set of automatic , unconscious thoughts, behaviors and emotions that’s acquired through repetition). So if you think about it, when we wake up in the morning ,we start thinking about our problems, those problems are circuits of memories in the brain each one of those memories are connected to people and things at certain times and places and if the brain is a record of the past the moment we start our day we are already thinking in the past. Each one of those memories has an emotion. Emotions are the end product of past experiences. So the moment we recall those memories of our problems we all of a sudden feel unhappy, sad or pain.
So the familiar past will sooner or later be predictable future. The stress, The mastermind behind every cause and effect made some days of life into nightmare. My parents started getting worried about my health. They made an every single effort to make me comfort with online mode of exam and scenario outside. A few months later I started getting adjusted. My parents explained me that there are 3 magical words hope, bond and motivation that can change any situation. Hope :-As in the poem the tiger is caged in a zoo with confined space. He is angry and can not do anything but he had a one way that was keeping a spark of hope. He did by looking at stars in a hope that some day he will be free from confined space and will be able to move freely in his home forest. Visualize this situation in which tiger as you and cage as corona and don’t leave hope because someday we will be all free from this virus. Bond :-The best example of bond is- the bond between colours as red and yellow colour combine with each other and they create orange colour. Where red symbolises courage and confidence,yellow colour symbolises wisdom and awareness and orange colour symbolise joy. The bond between 2 colours red and yellow created new colour similarly Our bond should be like these colours which create something not destroy. Motivation :-The best example of motivation is you as no one can motivate you until your soul is ready to accept. If there is a spark of hope within you then their is motivation.
Recovery could be possible if there is hope, bond and motivation. Problems come and go but leave their footprints.
there are 2 phases of life happiness and sadness. Some day the life will show you happy phase and other day the sad phase but how we fight with the problem and overcome to win from this is called living a life. These beautiful lines explained by my mom change my vision of thinking and started managing by day. I started managing things according to online classes and exam. I started eliminating everything that would make me unhappy and replacing those things with more of things that make me feel alive. Joyful, abundant, happy and free. There are 5 simple tips behind exam stress management:-
The first is to spend time with people who are good for your mental health. Second is to choose to see the good , the lesson or the blessing in everything. Third is to live your way. Fourth is to take care of your physical, mental and spiritual health. And finally the fifth is to believe, trust and let go. And due to my parents support and 5 stress management strategies online exam were no more enemy to me. ” Stress less Study more”.
At last but not the least make your strength effective and weaknesses irrelevant. A lack of adequate preparation will only result in an unnecessary amount of stress during the exam. Find comfort in knowing that you have power over the exam, perhaps more so than you ever have. Now I personally, praise the online assessment system. I find it less stressful, less complicated and feel that it assesses capabilities beyond memorization. I would not go as far as to say that I enjoyed taking these exams but they were about as good as an exam could get.
Always we should stay calm, prepare and do your best. That is all anyone can ask you, online or in person.
By:- Bhavya
Stress – especially accumulated stress is something my wife and I believe is very negative to health. I like the topic and you are a clear writer. I think this post could easily be divided into two parts and with with some spaces it would be easier to see and pause and absorb. As a blogger I think you will do well as you offer meaningful content.
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Thank you so much
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